There’s a rumor that says that women are complicated… that we don’t help each other… Well, yes, that’s true. I agree with everyone and of course, I’m talking about the sex, too.

Because if it’s difficult to understand us ouside the bedroom, the experience inside the bedroom, the sexual act could be a horrible one. But, everything would be much easier if, before starting the sexual act we are asked one magic question: “Are you vaginal or clitoral?”. Well, you can rephrase this question differently with other, more simple words: “Do you like to be penetrated or no?”

Each to her own

In my opinion, all of this reminds me of the relationships between gays. Because, at the end, you just need to find the perfect mix, I mean, link an active with a passive. And there are women who don’t like to be penetrated, other women couldn’t maintain relationships with someone that didn’t like to penetrate them. It would be perfect to find a compromise: a woman who likes to practice both.

Many women, or their partners, feel that many women don’t normally enjoy a vaginal orgasm. In fact, I was sent to a sex therapist for this reason. But the truth is that it’s possible that a woman doesn’t feel pleasure when she is just being penetrated, and her pleasure arrives when “the other” strokes the lips.

Here the problem isn’t the girl, on the contrary it’s the couple who has difficulties accepting that his penis or other similar devices, don’t cause the desired pleasure. And indeed, there is evidence that men suffer more when their girlfriend has this “problem”

It’s not that bad

Imagine just for a second enjoying life in Budapest, a wonderful city! You are there walking through the magnificent and romantic streets, and there, you sit down in a coffee-shop or a café to take a break. In my opinion, there aren’t any better options to soak up the city. At night, you come back to the rented apartment you booked on Apartments in Budapest, and you and your partner and you and your partner want to indulge in sexual pleasure. To end the day perfectly, you have to know and learn what your partner wants and of course, what you as a couple enjoy together has to be taken into account.

You would be surprised to find out how many women enjoy clitoral orgasms and don’t need and even dislike, the vaginal orgasm. And this is something about ourselves, and it doesn’t concern the partner. You have to let her enjoy whatever she likes, because while you enjoy what you like, do you care if and how she gets an orgasm?